i live in Ohio. my boyfriend is going thew some rough spots with his x about not letting him pick up the boy on the right days calling leaving rude obsean messages well i have found a note book of hers and for about 30pages it goes on and on about her and sex drugs cutting herself and once it says shes mean to her lil boy this book is from 05 to 06 is it to late to assume shes still up to all this personaly i think she still does do them things But will it stand in court?