I am currently in court battling for my 1 year old son. I hear alot in court that the mother usually wins in court. I understand that and respect if her and I were equal parents. In my case, she has make comments about hurting herself as well as actually biting and scratching herself along with her physically hitting me. I tried to tolerate her abuse but eventually too much was too much. I now stand in court where I hear no police report were ever filed, however I have phone calls recorded where she admits to this statements and yet my attorney tells me to accept joint custody with the mother having primary. I have a problem with that as her temper is too unpredictable. I am not violent nor have I have laid a hand on her. I need help in getting the court to see my concerns. I know court is all about the best interest of my son and I too although many feel I want everything. My wants are not important to my son's needs. He needs a stable mother. I asked her to get a psych eval which she did and she lied on it saying she has no issues. What do I do?
