Posted by:

ken

on October 27, 2001 at 11:10:47:

ummm..ummmm..hate to say it like this...but your going to have to separate your emotions from your thoughts for a little while. I am sure you have every desire to see whats best for your child, theres no doubt there, but what seems to be muddying the waters here is that you are trying to be nice on one hand, and on the other, your being forced into a situation that you dont want to see happen. Unfourtunately, the court system of today, thru the promotion of attorneys, has taken/forced an adversarial postion between spouses. You are going to have to accept that. I know your heart may be hurting just from the loss of your wife, and her affections....but, there comes a time where you have to choose. A: Give her anything she wants all in the hopes that your *kindness* fosters an environment where reconciliation is possible..or B: accept the fact that she has chosen to go the way she has, and you now have to protect your interests. CD is correct in everything he has told you, and you would be wise to chose one way or the other and get on with it. I am sorry its a hard choice, your in the same boat as alot of people, and just know, that no matter which way you chose to go, second guessing is the worst poison to swallow. Good luck!

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