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Posted by:
mike
on December 07, 2001 at 10:44:49:
That's when her first thoughts of supervised visitation began. She wanted to get back together. I went to her home 5 states away to visit child. She and I well...reconciled for a few days, I was staying there- in her home for two weeks,we signed a visitation agreement while I was there-giving me liberal, summer visitation...but once I left, she became angry that I wasn't coming back to her..and the next thing I know, I get a letter asking me to agree to supervised visitation in order for her to agree to divorce. Of course, I said "Hell no"; but she went along with her little plan anyway. I'm thinking that with my ex, could it be a thinly-veiled attempt to continue seeing me?
I was dating someone (x and I were separated for 2 yrs at the time), then she made sure that person knew that she and I had..well you know, in attempt to break us up. I thank god that the person I was dating understood, and she forgave me-knowing I had never gotten to see my son since ex and I separated, also that sometimes the exes may need one last fling for closure. She married me a 1 1/2yr later. I think my ex is extremely upset that her plan did not work. At the time of divorce I had nothing, definitely not enough money to retain attorneys...so I had to wait. X got everthing she asked for, that's why I have supervised visitation. X still will not come out from under her lies. Maybe she wants to try to hurt this marriage?? She won't write back when I request visitation with son. All she wants to do is talk on the phone about it (nothing ever gets resolved)Or she says in order for me to get a written schedule I have to go to her home-to talk face to face. Doesn't this sound ridiculous? Is she that lonely? I'm remarried and have another family now. I will never do that with her again. What is she trying to do?? She's not helping son at all, or even trying to work out visitation with me. She's not leaving me many choices. I'm just afraid of the outcome of court. Any thoughts on how to handle this one??
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