I was scared. I was only 19 at the time. She told me she was on birth control. It is her own fault that she got pregnant. Can't anyone see that????? Why I want to know if it is mine, I guess, is because my girlfriend keeps pressuring me. I told my parents about her being pregnant when I left minnesota too, but they said that she was just after our family's money. My parents are rich. If I just let it go, is there anyway she can come back at me, try to get support. Can I try to terminate my own rights so that I don't have to pay child support if does try to come at me?