From my distant observation point, your case seems to be very very different than the other poster because hers were consentual relations. Still, sometimes something strikes a nerve.
I agree that Clark's choice of words were unduly harsh, but I would guess that some of what he read there also reminded him of a few things in his life. The words you used in response were not the kind of words we like used on this website. Again, I do understand the pain behind the words.
If you do choose to leave us, I wish you and your child the best.