Youngmomma, I hope you choose to say on this site, posters like me and the others can use your kind words and knowledge. Evidently I struck a cord w/ some people, I am sorry. I am not vengeful, I have done nothing to birth father, I've only asked at first, he see our child more, I even closed the cs case once he chose to walk away- how is any of my actions vengeful- because I wanted to know if there was cause to take off name on bc? I was aking for legal purposes only, I've stated that my child when timing is right will know about her birth father, I am not keeping either from each other. Yes, the conception was consentful, AGAIN, I was being responsible as far as that went. Yes, I should have thought about the what if it fails, but it never had, so I really never considered it, my mistake. My child however is not a mistake, that is all I can say. Again, I am sorry if I struck a cord w/ any of you, that was not my intention. I will be the one to exit this site, again I appologize.