I am wondering the same thing. I am also in a battle but I am only preparing for the temporary hearing which could of course be final. My ex has made lots of false accusations and only my children 5 and 7 have witnessed these things. Will the judge allow a child so young to be questioned? I am hoping so because that would cause him to rule in my favor. My children need to be questioned about how their father treats them which is terrible he is emotionally abusive. He will do anything to anyone aggrivating to the point of tears to get a reaction out of my children or others close to him. He did it to me for 5 years he would tell me things while my child was in the hospital sick for a week and admitted that he was having an affair just so I would stress about it and he could see me cry. How hateful is that? He pinns my children on the floor where they cannot move or breathe and releases them just before he knows that they will scream out when he lets go. He used to do it to me and it feels horrible to have to go through this. He thinks he is playing. Figures huh? come to find out my Ex had cheated on me the whole 5 years we were together stooping as low as a 13 year old! I should have filed stat. rape but I didnt I'm too nice and now me and my children are paying for it because I never had the money and still don't to hire an attorney, my parents are paying for it! I have always struggled even when we were married to do the best i could for my children including paying bills cutting grass shopping for groceries cleaning house and working full time at a daycare because i could not afford childcare so that i could get a better job. He did nothing for us and still dont he pays 138 dollars every two weeks out of his 2,000 paycheck and thinks that is too much. I have always had to be the one living from paycheck to paycheck and off of the government so that now he can take my kids from me? man how can he do this? good luck to you really!!