What we don't understand is that when he is on visitation with us or when she calls to talk to him and he doesn't want to have to talk to her or go back early b/c she wanted to spend X-mas day with him, we made him go and we made him talk to her b/c we know what it feels like to have to go a whole month without him. She had a friend of his at the house and everything so we knew she was up to something.
