This is Jaclyn, indallas, and thank you for your input also. The problem is the same thing that I have been telling Jeff, that he is trying to be nice, but when it comes to our children we have to stand up and say "NO". We will be going for custody before the end of the year, and we are just asking for prayers because we know that the battle will be long and hard, but it will be worth it when we are holding his hand and walking to the car with him. He has mentioned to me several times that he wants to live with us as long as he gets to see his mom, too. I remember back in February he said this to me again and said that the reason he wants to live here is because he knows that me and his daddy will let him see her, but with her he doesn't really get to see his daddy.