i am a mother, and i tell you, if it werent for my kids "sperm donor", (i have all rights to refer to him as this), relinquishing his rights, i might be upset and whatever for some time but if he was still around i would NEVER go thru court to determine his constatutional rights. I think the "mothers" who do everything in there power to hurt " their own child" per say, (really their goal is father), needs to GROW UP... my god how hard is it to give what was when you were with him... i swear all of them are just selfish, dont love their child more than themselves - B*T$#@*.. they need to remember its not about them and if they really love the kid they would suck up pride, its only about the child... But to relate to your discussion, anyone knows its a family conspiracy to keep the child out of your life, i think they even pull up geneology reports and summon dead relatives to aid in the mental anguish!!! my husband has this problem only its much worse, you'd think he laid down and had the child with his X's MOTHER.. i feel if the X cant make decisions regaurding the child without PERMISSION from her mom, she should not have custody at all and supervized visits. it makes her so incompetent b/c she has to get all permission from her mom. i want to say c/mon detach from the tit, the milk has to be rotten by now, and my that umbillical chord sure is dried up by now! well any wayz, no matter what was done to me by an X, i could never have the heart or live with myself day to day, if i put him or anyone thru the court ordered screw the daddy system... and as of my family getting involved, hell i didnt listen to them then, why now? and they also werent under the sheets (or was it the back seat.. JUST KIDDIN) when the condom broke so they will not be involved in the agreement between us parents on OUR children....those who involve the fam. like that, i say, just suck it up....and i dont mean mommy's tit!...
i envy all you GREAT deserving daddy's who do give a damn and are still trying and choose not to give up but try harder... KUDOS TO ALL OF YOU and for the mothers who grew up when the stick showed 2 lines, thank you for reconizing who really matters! AJ
