So SD (13) and SS (14) after 10 yrs of BM trying to make them hate DH & I ...finally decided they Hate us and dont ever want to see us again after spedning EOW ,half the holidays and summers wiht us with no incidents other than our house is not as good as MOMS house until last week when tehy were punished for bad behavior at our house and they decided they wanted to go "home".despite the great things we do togehter that is always over looked, vacations we take, etc. we are heart broken obviously..but what shoudl we do? I know that if we were to go to court BM would get a lecture and visiation "enforced" but what good would that do? Do we just let them go??? I am really at a loss here... DO we keep track of them? thier education? BM never lives anywhere for very long..our families are going to be devastated..how do we get thru this?!
