alright so im 20 years old and i have a two year old son. im currentl in iraq and when i call to talk to his mother when i forst got here she wanted to get back together however she has a drug issue with weed and is often with different men. all i want is to see my son. when we were together her friends would tell me that she was planning on telling me she was pregnant so i wouldnt leave her. well when she did i left her anyway and didnt talk to her every guy that ever came up she would run to me and tell me they tried to rape her. now i wasnt there for the pregnancy or the birth. and there still is no proof hes mine but i can look at him and know hes mine. well now she has a new boyfriend or whatever and i just want to come home and see my son but i think its going to be a fight. so because im stable and want to give my son a good life i want to know what can i do to get him my unit is willing to back me up and help me get custody but im not sure how to do it i dont want this to be ugly i just want to see my son so if anyone can help please fill me in
