This in no way means I love my child less than custodial father. My daughter is old enough to talk about what is going on,she is not happy.
Are you asking should mother have divorce hubby who moved to another state, stay in town where you and husband are so she can retain custody?
Is this your business? Do you have a stake in husband's ex-wife new marriage working out?
I don't understand your concern with this woman's private affairs.
As hard as it is on both child and parent, long distance parenting in our day and age is a reality.