How judgemental of you! you the stepmom does not understand all the history and pain that goes into this. I to moved away,becuse of my ex who kept harrassing me at work,at home,in town etc. Who had a lot more money and pull, who didnt care what happened to me or the kids as long as he was free to run arround, sleep arround,and still pop in and remain control. When I found someone who really loved me that I loved back and could provide a wonderful home in all sense of the word.He went balistic, started a lot of lies,took my children,and still is a very controlling man with PAS etc. Dont judge a woman till you have walked a mile in her boots.
