well i guess since everyone else who replied couldn't see that you are just worried which is normal, and don't appreciate when your childrens father tell you that it is none of your business and his mother does too it's just really stupid. my guess is he and his mother wouldn't like it too much if you told them to fuck off huh? tell the father that it is VERY much your business as you are both sharing the children equally and maybe if they didn't say things like it's none of your business then you wouldn't get all freaked out. if you were a father with this story then EVERYONE would have said how horrible the mother of the children is for saying that and how it's not fair and blah blah blah. i get it, you just want to know and not because you are nosy. if anyone told me something about my kids was none of my business it would make me very angry too especially if i was supposed to be sharing them.
