Hey that's the county! Guess I should have gone into a little more detail. My children range in age 23-30. The handicapped being 30 with me, and 1 daughter and granddaughter with me. Also the Paternal Grandparents moved within 1 mile of us. My neice and nephew are only 4 and 5 and I don't have a problem with grandparents raising their grandchildren but the great aunt and uncle are 60 years and there is no reason for them to make this sacrifice when there is immediate family willing to take them.