You wanted them , you got them now raise them, do the best you can. he could be dead then who would you have to blame. Woe is me? Did you ever stop to think while you were having all that fun sex with the guy you chose to be the childrens father that some day he would be the one you now hate? He is still the childrens father and that is all your fault. Now is when you have to admit your mistakes. Are you telling us you had no responsibility for taking action years ago to either stop having kids or get the father some help to make him a better spouse or a better father?
