I concur Clark, but somewhere on a board just for judges they wish they could magically make all parents get along so they would never have to hear any of these family law cases again. They wish all parents where good parents and could co-parent with each other. They hope for a day when never again will they have to decide cases where each party could have won custody or conversely where they wish the poor kids could have been born to different parents. We can all wish for something.