Ok.. Thank you Clark. I dont live in that jurisdiction, neither does she. But I thank you for your advice. You will be happy to know, her father, if he decides to pursue custody will likely win at this point. Kudos to all ya all who hate us women and lump us in to the manipulative, backstabing, feminwhatevers. Instead of maybe a mother who cares deeply for her child, and may be a little niave as well. And no!!! I am not feeling sorry for myself.. just making an opinion about a very obvious and soooo predictible response.