I hate to say there is an upside to my SD moving away, but we no longer have to deal with the mother and the grandmother using SD to spy and report anything about our lives that they could distort and use to cause havok in our lives. I also don't have to stomach those people coming to my door everyother weekend anymore.
Our lives as couple stabilized alot after the move and we have a lot more peace in our lives. I don't care anything about those peoples lives anymore as long as they stay out of mine. It is very freeing.