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on December 19, 2005 at 10:51:08:

If you live in WA and your ex moved away he could go back and ask for a revised parenting plan with him getting them every summer, every spring break, all winter break in even years, half in odd and you would be resposible for paying the same percentage of the travel expenses as is your percentage in the basic child support order.

I didn't read your whole post, it was a bit rambling, but I don't know why it would kill you to let the kids be with him on new years day. You get them almost every day of the year otherwise.

From the tone of the post it sounds like you are pissed at him for moving away and not paying the medical expenses and you are punishing him by making your stand about when he can and can't have the kids. He will probobly not file court papers (unless new girlfriend has money), but will back down and back even further out of your kids life. You are hurting your kids more than you are hurting him.

Sorry if I took your post wrong, but from what I read and could understand, these are my thoughts.

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• Well for starters my ex --- Jeanie 12:31:23 12/19/05

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