Well thought I'd post an update. I finally found my kids after making call after call annoying my ex-in-laws, but it paid off. Come to find out my ex didn't have long distance put on his new phone and he can't call long distance from his cell phone, which he just had turned back on 6 days ago. Guess he never heard of calling cards. I still intend to get an attorney, I'm done being nice, after all he's never been. So I would like to thank everyone for their advice, and input.