I hope the truth comes out for your kids. So do both od these guys have the kids living with them or do you have one and the other has one? One things abouts kids is that they will try real hard to please the parent that they are with. but they love you and they what to make you happy. What happen to let him have the child? Has anything you did he used? I don't think the judge will care about what happen when your were a child. Also your mom sexually abuse you and you still talk to her? and she works with kids. I think she should lose her job. I will tell you right now. if I found out someone that worked with my kids sexually abuse her own child. I would pull my kid out of there unless she was fried. I can understand the men not whating their kids over there. What about this. If one of the kids dads dad had sexually abuse one of then as kids I don't think you would want your kids around them.