abuse and custody

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Posted by:

julie

on December 30, 2005 at 13:56:07:

my case is difficult for me i was married at 14 and had a baby wich is now 4 years old but they took him away because i was aminor but thank God my mom faugt him now his in my mom custody.then i got pregnant 7 months later and had a beatiful daughter but anfortunaly my husban always hit for no reason but iloved him and he always promised he was gonna changed but thenhe started hitting my baby i couldnt say nothing because i changed my name and age so they wouldt take my dauhter away i didt want to but my husban forced me.about 6months later i was pregnant again and had a baby boy.i was the one who worked more he took care of my babies.then 1 day he called me at my work saying my little boy was sick so i took of to the hospital but he was okey he just was overfed the doctors told me.then it happened again but this time my baby had a hard time breathing so he stayd 10 days in observation.my husban was mad because they wouldt let us take the baby home.then they let us take him home one they after i went to do laundry crying because i got in an argument with my husband and 30 minutes after being in the laundry my husband calls me and tells me to get to the house fast because my baby wasnt breathing when i got there my baby wasnt moving he gave his last breath in my arms.we got to the hospital he was declared dead at 8:30pm.i couldt believe what had just happen i didnt know if to cry,scream,or anything.my husban was next to me and he fainted.the next day the police called me and wanted me and my husband to go with our dauhgter.we went and i went to a room and asked us lot af question then it was my husban turn 3 hours later the police came to me saying my husband was under arrest because the found bruises on him they told me they were gonna take my daugter away because she was in danger with me.i never told them my husband was abusive and that i changed my name because i was scared i would never see my baby again.now i just got separated from him and trying to fihgt her back but i have no money for a lawyer and i just turned 18.i really need someone to talk to i have family but we dont comunicate like other families.i want to say the truth but i think its to late i want to see and have my daughter with me.plese someone give and advice.i dont have internet i come to the library i work 7 days a week trying to get enouhg money for a lawyer my dauhgteris going to be 4 years old i want her to know who her mother is and for her to forgive me for not protecting her like i had to.



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