I'm so sick of people saying things like "Well you decided to sleep with him!" So, are you saying that since she decided to sleep with him that all the qualities that make him an unfit parent are waived? Maybe he did have a job when she slept with him, or maybe he didn't and she just made a bad choice. We all make mistakes, but why do people just say it's the girls fault because "she slept with him" instead of telling the father to stand up and be a man when a child comes in to this world? Ok, so he didn't have a job before, well now he has a child.....how about NOW getting a job and a place of his own for his child's well being?
