I have not had a restraining order on him for 3 years and why would that have anthing to do with working?? we've never lived together, we dont even live in the same town. and if dad really cared he would pay his own councelling like the court order sais. i cant belive you think i should pay for him that is such crap. and no its not a medical bill, i pay cash this aint no white trash councelling.. i really do care about my son thats why i do councelling,..duhhhh