lady, i'm not saying he dosn't deserve anything, i do encourage the relationship. but when this man dosn't show up to get him on his birthday, then calls 3 days later and says he forgot, he did the same thing 2 weeks later for thanksgiving. he never goes to councelling, no child support, in and out of jail, driving drunk, using crank, maby you would like to pull you kid out from under the bed screaming and crying to send him off with someone you know is wrong, then tell me how it feels.. are you for real. this man will never grow up he'll die before that happens.. it's not my responsibility to even talk to him about his behavior. i have 3 kids and a buisness i shouldn't have to dael with this sress from this guy. he's not gona ruin my life agin. he is not worth it.
