the thing i am saying on this web site are not things i talk about to my child i am not stupid, i always talk it up like he is gona have the best time ever. my son can like his dad all he wants i want him too, i encourage him too. i don't have to like him, i don't have to sit back and whatch my child suffer because his dad gets drunk, smokes cig in the car, dosn;t feed him good, brings him home with lice, my kid comes home crying saying he just wanted to come home all night and his dad wouldn't bring him. i not gona sit back while my child is at some crack house or left at a park while ''dad'' goes to the carwash across town. a 5 year old child knows alot more than when i was 5, things are so different these days. a child knows where he is happy and comfortable, what he wants to eat. if what is best for the child is to force him into something bad then i'm gona have a dead kid. let kids speak up more. i will always keep my kid pissitive about his visits eventhough i'm just lying to his face..
