And yes in order to give accurate and useful advice, you would need to disclose the facts.
You can't address an issues without having all the facts. If not you leave people to no other choice than to assume based off only your post and the demeanor of your post.
If you act this way in real life, you have caused your own problems.
Your child is suffering in part because of YOUR actions, take responsibility for it. And for how to help the answers have already been given you have refused to listen.