and no I have a wonderful although be it laid off husband, and 6 children. You offered his number and now say he has none..hmmm
okay so how about his address then. Surely you must know where he lives. And I would guess his parents have a phone, do they not?
Why so defensive about letting him tell his side of the story, besides if it will help a child I would be willing to help him find aid for the counseling.