The courts stated that because of the fact that in the beginning of our seperation when I found out that my husband and friend were having an affair I was very angry and upset, with that the courts stated that I haven't let it go and they feel that because I still have anger in my husband cheating on me that I couldn't raise my boys. My 14 yr old knows that he can go to court and change where he lives but I can't leave my 10 yr old there alone. Ex's girlfriend screams, yells and cusses at my boys when their dad isn't home.