My ex didn't say a thing about me never told the courts that I was a good mom who was there for everything with the boys. As for the evaulator well lets just say both reports she wrote were only on things that my ex had to say not a thing about my boys feelings or mine. So that goes to show you that I guess it pays to payoff the person who is going to make the decisions for your children. If I would have known that I would have gotten the money from somewhere to pay her off.