His reports stated "She can't accept that I have left her for her friend and that the marriage is over" Although he keep coming back to me while still with the so called friend. Told the advocate that he also wanted to try to make the marriage work but how can you when you continue to see the person who came in the middle. Never once did he ever say that I did everything for the kids, stated that he did it all and I never did anything. IF you would like I could always fax you a copy of the report so that you stop saying Im not giving the whole story!!!!!