I had a lawyer. But you have to have money for them and I live working 2 jobs now just to payoff the other one. So exactly how am I suppose to afford one. You know my ex knew exactly what he was doing. He is a smooth talker and can get anyone to believe anything that he says even my attorney stated that. I can't even get legal aide to assist me as even though I qualify for the program they don't have attorneys to assist me.