Thank you grahamg, you I do believe is the only one that has believed in what I have stated. Unlike Lawmoe in which I think has something against mothers fighting for their kids. My ex and his girlfriend as well as his sister lied on the stand and the judge believed every word they said. Unlike me when I tell the truth it is made out that I have anger issues with my ex ( In which I don't) My only concern is the happiness of my boys. I want them to be happy and I can tell you that they aren't, the only time I see or hear happiness in them is when I'm on the phone with them or they are with me.