She is doing well considering everything. Mom is now back in town, moved back shortly after custody changed over. Bm does take out a lot of anger toward my wife and myself during visits. Her step dad is even worse. DD has a really hard time right now since BM constantly tries to talk about the love she has for her on the visits and how much I take her away. But then BM doesn't contact her until the next visitation. BM is often at work and her husband will not answer the phone when this number shows up. (hubby is unemployed except a mysterious "side job" They are being investigate for drugs)BM isn't allowed to give me her cell number so voicemail is out of the question and they don't have a machine at home. BM and I have had many arguements regarding her not being in contact. BM claims that our daughter "knows I'm busy and I love her" though. As much as she may know it, it still hurts. The therapist is going to try to bring BM in sometime soon if she can. Our daughter lies quite a bit now, and possibly may have RAD and/or FAS. We are praying it's not true, but really hard to deny at this point. But we have our family vacation coming up in one week, and getting away to the beach will probably feel great for everyone.
