Anyways, here's the short of it....Domestic Violence towards me by the dad, evicted from my house in Jan '04. Kids, ages 2 1/2 mos and 18 mos old at the time via the custody arrangement under the PFA. DAd got $ together, took me to court and won overnight unsupervised visits. I didn't want that because I fear him and I know he is capable of some really messed up stuff. Anyways, how about I just put my now almost 4 year and almost 3 year old in play therapy. Oldest one has fused labia that was not present at birth but hasn't given disclosure of anything happening and dad is fixated on when it will be open again. 3 year old is masturbating (not exploring, masterbating)...asking me to leave the room and works herself into a sweat humping her blankie. There are other things going on too but no disclosure from the kids at this point. I don't understand how some of you who say you have allegations against you are having a hard time proving yourself innocent when I really have something happening here and I can't prove it!