is that you seem to be looking for a reason why a mother would act this way. Even after being told that she behaved this way before I entered, you tried to find a way to blame me for her problems. Or her insecurity because she baited and choose the "responsible" of her two partners and then regrets it.
The Mom in this case simply put cares more about her than her children. It is not my fault, it is not my dh fault. she was psycotic before meeting him, he just didn't realize it in time.
