Thanks Jeanie--it always helps to see things from both sides. You are right, as weird as it sounds, sometimes a divorce can actually be a healthier thing than staying in a marriage. And as much as some folks try--even being in a strong marriage doesn't guarantee strong & healthy children.
And finally--you are definitely right when you say that what we deal with here is the person with severe mental/moral issues and extreme immaturity--and they have no clue the damage they are doing.
Good luck to you--and with your counseling. I pray it is helpful to your kids and to your whole family.
And good luck to you slippery slope--and with your counseling.
It is awesome when you keep up a thread and really learn things.