He still tries to play games but his family has helped me out. For a long time, he wouldn't give his address as he was ordered to in the court order so I would know where my kids were when he had them. His family gave it to me. Sometimes he doesn't let me talk to them when he has them, and let me tell you, I need to hear their voices so I know they are okay. He knows that. He still tries to control things but then will say I am trying to control him!
Tonight is the perfect example....he told me via telephone "pack a variety of shoes...I want them to have a variety of shoes this weekend"...Now for starters, he is to provide those things at his house and he can well afford it. The other thing is that since I said he could keep them through the 4th, I asked if he was traveling with them to see family (so I would know where my kids were) he won't tell me! He claims that he doesn't know where I am with the kids when I have them but I have never withheld info from him when he asks. It's all a game to him...one big exhausting game.