does that somehow mean that i love my daughter less or are less deserving of having her? no.
in the end, i did what i wanted to do and that was have her and raise her.
her bio dad did not ever want any part of her or her life. still does not. i do not hold that against him now. (i did at first, but no more)
we all have a flood of things to consider when we are in a situation of an unplanned pregnancy. especially if you are not married at the time of that pg.
i'm not saying he is father of the year, but i AM saying you cannot judge him for something he THOUGHT he wanted at the time he learned of the pregnancy any more. obviously you have the children and he spends time with them.
we all make choices we regret at some point and we all say/do things at times that we later realize were mistakes. everyone is allowed that and everyone does that...