No, I am not wrong about MY life and MY situation. I forgot to mention earlier that phone contact is including in our custody agreement so he violates when he doesn't allow me to talk to them. He uses excuses like "you didn't ask nicely enough..." You ignored all that I said about never refusing him contact with the kids. It is always me, me, me accomdating....it will bite him in the end. We will going back to court soon because he has refused to sign a new order that his attorney and he agreed to in the presence of the judge....the one where the judge understood why I didn't want him to take my girls out of the country...among other things.
I am dealing with a very sick individual and the fact that prejudices about women who are in my shoes are made is simply, a tragedy.
I have free legal representation from the Domestic Violence Legal Clinic in my town for a reason.