As to the "point" you are trying to make...it's not just absurd...it's ludicrous!
Here's the deal.....you started with "sexual abuse suspicions" and have ended with your husband being a "convicted sex offender". You have done everything possible to paint your husband in the worst light possible in order to receive affirmation and justify your own bad behavior.
Whatever problems that have occured between your husband and yourself, need to stay between the two of you. You have no right to drag the children into it OR to use the children to punish your husband.
In reading your various posts, you sound a lot like this woman on another board that I participate in...she not only lost physical custody of their children, but has supervised parenting time.