.....yes. You might be surprised at the number of people (men and women) who think nothing of making false accusations in order to get "even".
You are villifying me and you don't even know me.
I have NOT made a single "vicious and defamatory statement" against you which BTW...is what "vilify" means. However, based on what you have posted I do have cause to question your motives and your story,
If another "poster" was in my sitaution and lost custody, you should be appalled that our system would thrust innocent children into the hands of criminals....
Maybe...maybe not; it depends on the person and what they were convicted of. I have a friend who was convicted and served a prison sentence for involuntary manslaughter and who today has custody and I fully support the court's decision. However, I wouldn't approve of a convicted pedophile receiving custody. But then again, your husband hasn't been convicted of any crime, so your question is moot.
He also participates in sex with teenage girls (by his admission to me)
How old was he and how old were they? Are we talking about a 30 year old man have sexual intercourse with a 13 year old? A 21 year old man having with a 16 year old? Or a 27 year old man having sex with a 19 year old?
Your mentality is the problem.
My "mentality"?!? What exactly would that be? And I would be careful before answering because you already stuck your foot in your mouth once when you assumed that Jeanie wasn't a mother and thus could not possibly understand.
Is a rape vicim on street in need of leaving what happened to her between "her and him" or does she have an innate need as well as duty to help protect those who may also become vicim?
Hmmmmmmm. First of all, if you're planning on becoming an "advocate", then you need to open your eyes as well as your brain to the fact that "rape" and "domestic violence" is NOT limited to "man on woman". Men rape other men, women rape men and women also rape other women. Men also abuse men, women abuse men and women abuse other women.
Also, domestic violence is NOT limited to people who are "intimate" ie...girl/boyfriends, domestic partners or husband/wife. Domestic violence occurs between sisters, between brothers, between sister and brother, between son/daughter and mother/father, between adult children and their parents (often refered to as "elder abuse" or between parents and their children (often refered to as "child abuse") or any other combination of "family" members including Aunts, Uncles, cousins, half and step-siblings, step-parents, legal guardians and foster parents.
And yes...a rape IS between the perpetrator and the victim.
The ONLY "duty" he or she has (don't forget that men are also victims of rape) is to him/herself. Simply put...you can't help others until you help yourself first.
If I was running a DV or Rape program...I personally would NOT allow you within 500 MILES of any of my people or anyone who was coming to us for help. You are a "crusader" and your blind single-mindedness will cause MORE harm than good.
As for "innate need"...you might want to check the meaning of the word "innate". The majority of people who work with "victims" do so because they were once victims themselves, NOT because they felt possessed since birth to help others. And not everyone who is a "victim" feels a "need" to help others in similar circumstances.