As for the rest...oh puh-leeeeeeeeeeee. The ONLY time you call me "judgmental" is if you don't agree with me or are on the receiving end.
Can you HONESTLY tell me that you would force your 13 year-old daughter to have the baby under these circumstances? Can you?
Well I wouldn't and if that makes me a "bad" person in YOUR eyes, then that is YOUR problem, NOT mine...YOU are the one with issues.