hello. this is my first time ever doing something like this. i need help. my wife is out of state and has my 2 daughters with her. now before they left in july i spoke with my wife and specifically told her that we could not afford this trip. her attitude was you are not going to keep me in this city which we reside and you know that i planned it. well, it's been over a month she still hasn't come back. she's been acting as if she is single. our son asked her when she was coming back she completely side steps the question and throws it on me that i should not have put him in football because i knew about the trip. school has started and the girls are not here yet. know she is asking for money because apperently all the money that she has saved is gone. she's going to north carolina to see my family and enroll the girls there. she wants to finish school herself but i feel she went about the whole thing wrong. before all this we got into a heated argument and i folded because i wanted to keep my family intact. now it appears that my son and i are on our way to north carolina. any advice? divorse is not an option because i'm christian. i'm waring in my mind about 5 yrs. down the road what is going to happen to my children and my marriage. my kids where born in the city, our friends, church and all that we do is here. i'm stuck with no where else to turn.
