Then ALL you had to do was to post the link and then tell us that. You did NOT have to post the "conversation"...remember what we talk about earlier?
If you pushed me to have a simple reason for setting up this thread, especially posting the views of those who have lost their children is that many of them commented on how "controlling" their ex.'s were.
Who care about how things "were"...they are NO longer married to their exs so it's a MOOT point EXCEPT to try and use it as an excuse to get out of accepting responsiblity for the choices they have made SINCE then.
My ex and I have been divorced for almost 15 years, but he still goes on and on about crap that happend TWENTY FREAKING YEARS AGO like it was yesterday! Who gives a rat's ass...I know I don't.
Again...please refrain from this type of "copy/paste".