DH let her know he'd be out of town for 5 weeks, and that on his visitation weekend, he would still like his daughter to be able to come here to spend that time with me. At first she was cool with it, but at some point later he made her mad and she tried to take it back. This whole topic on here came about because I was asking IF she did withold the visitation, would she be in comtempt? Anyway, since their arguement, her and I were able to talk and work it out so my stepdaughter will still be able to come here this weekend, even though her dad is out of town.