I know nothing about step dad number two, my ex makes every effort to keep us apart. She made the mistake of bringing step dad number one to court, he got an ear full of my complaints about her and began to understand why I was so upset with her when she had to answer several questions under oath that I had backd up with very good documentation. then he began to see how much she had lied to him. I know she is doing the very same things with step dad number two. He has never said more than three words to me. She kept me and husband number two separated as much as possible, he never wanted to visit I insisted that his parents get visits and he would show up for a few minutes sometimes. I found out later why things were the way they were. She had convinced him that I was extremely dangerous and would kill him the first chance I got. totally untrue, I am the one that tried to get him to visit, I offered to pay his way down. the grand parents were very confused, we got along fine. We also visited with his great grandparents. We all had a long talk after she left.